Submit to reality

"Submit to reality, then you will truly experience freedom."

One must first submit to a reality. At first this is an obstacle, but eventually the obstacles turn into stepping stones that the will can incorporate into its possibilities. Then a realm of freedom is born. Fulfillment/happiness is a byproduct.

piano example at 59 minutes illustrates it further.

http://www.veritas.org/Media.aspx#!/v/223

Amazing